"What would you like?" "I don't know."
Maybe your partner has asked what you'd like to try, and you didn't know what to say. Maybe you've walked past an intimate shop and kept walking, because a sales assistant might come over, or someone you know might see you come out. You're curious, but you have no idea where to start.
That is exactly where most people are. And you don't need to know what you want before you begin. You find out by trying, at your own pace, in private.
The hardest part isn't choosing
For most people, the hardest part of a first intimate purchase isn't picking a product. It's the questions around it: Is this normal? What if I choose wrong? Who will see the parcel?
All completely normal questions. Here are straight answers, and a simple way to make your first order easy.
Step 1: Start small with a first kit under €15
Your first order doesn't need to be expensive or complicated. Three small things, together less than €15, are enough to discover what you like, alone or as a couple:
- ZZ Pop (€6.95): a tingling gel with no batteries and no motor. Curious, playful and impossible to get "wrong."
- Steal My Kisses (€4.95): a small, flavoured, water-based lubricant for foreplay and kisses.
- Popping Candies (€2.50): fun, cheap and a guaranteed laugh.
Together: €14.40.
Want to try something more?
- OrgasmMax for Women or for Men (€4.55): natural vitality capsules in a two-capsule trial pack. A small, low-commitment way to try.
- G-Finder (€5.50): an 8 cm mini vibrator. Small, quiet and unintimidating as a first toy.
- Toy Cleaner (€7): if you buy a toy, buy this with it. Clean before and after every use.
Step 2: What to check before you buy
- Body-safe materials. For toys, look for medical-grade silicone. Avoid unclear "jelly" materials.
- The right lubricant. Water-based lubricant works with everything, including condoms and silicone toys. If you're unsure, choose water-based.
- Allergies. If you have sensitive skin, check the ingredients and test a small amount on your arm first.
- Your budget. You can start with under €15. Expensive doesn't automatically mean better for a first try.
Step 3: Choose how you get it
Every order is packed in plain packaging with no pictures or product names on the outside. To anyone else, it's just another parcel.
- Pick it up from our showroom in Tallinn, free. Choose showroom pickup at checkout (you'll see the address there) and collect it yourself. You'll get an email when your order is ready. Nothing comes to your home or office.
- Parcel locker, on your own schedule. Have it sent to the parcel locker of your choice anywhere in Estonia and collect it whenever it suits you.
"What if someone finds out?"
Caring for your intimate wellbeing is as normal as buying skincare. You don't owe anyone an explanation. And practically speaking, with plain packaging and pickup options, nobody needs to know unless you tell them.
"And how do I tell my partner?"
You don't need a big conversation. Order the small kit and say, "I got us something to try." A playful product often says what's hard to put into words, and it turns "what do you want?" into something you discover together.
Ready to start?
Browse our small picks under €15 or our bestsellers. If you have a question you'd rather not ask out loud, send us a message. We're happy to help, without judgement.
At LoveAid, discretion isn't an extra service. It's the default.
